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Major
Site Enhancement!
Free Printing of StepOne Vision Boards
for Members
We are pleased to announce a new features to our
StepOne Members:
You can now print professionally designed Vision
Boards right from your StepOne Member site directly to your desktop
printer.
Customize your Vision Board by selecting from a variety
of stunning backgrounds and colors. Members can even add their
Mission Statements right into their Vision Boards.
To our knowledge there is no other Vision Board site on the market
that makes it this easy to print amazingly formatted Vision Boards.
The beauty of this tool is that you can effortlessly
edit and re-print your Vision Board as often as you wish. Try
doing that with a classic paper and glue Vision Board!
Try us out for yourself. If you’re a StepOne
Member login
now.
If you’re not a Member take advantage of our 7 day
free trial and experience first hand how liberating it can be to
see your goals put to print! Click
here to get started.
We’re on a mission to make StepOne the best site
on the web for helping you reach your goals. If you have any
comments or suggestions please reply to this e-mail.
Live Courageously!
Susan Nicoll
Editor – Achieve!
snicoll@StepOneVisionBoards.com
P. S. If you know of someone
who might benefit from the message please forward this note to them.
Mistakes – The Secret
Key to Success?
Part 2
In our last edition of ‘Achieve!’ we introduced you
to the somewhat controversial idea that mistakes might just be
one of the secret keys to success.
In the book entitled, ‘How We Decide’ Johan Lehrer
covers in detail how our brain is hardwired to pick up on and adapt
to ‘mistakes’.
Mr. Lehrer outlines how masters of any given discipline
spend time reviewing, and most importantly, learning from their mistakes. Take
the professional football Quarterback. On top of the hours on the
field, hours in the gym and hours learning the play book, the top
players spend an incredible amount of time reviewing the footage
from their games. As the Quarterback watches the video he’s
asking himself, “Did I pick up the blitz? Did I pass to the
open player? Did I call the right play?”. It’s only through
disciplined, focused review of performance that he will find his
errors and then work to correct them in the next game.
Master Chess Players do the same thing. Win
or lose they play the game back in their minds, looking for the errors
and then thinking through how to avoid them the next time they play.
In my own sport of Shotokan Karate, I’ve been amazed
at what a difference this approach can make. After each practice
round of sparring I either have someone point out one or two gaps
in my technique or I video tape the sparring session and review my
performance. This process has been incredibly insightful. Often
times there are things I’m doing or not doing in a sparring
session that leave me very vulnerable, yet until someone pointed
out these errors I had no idea I was making them!
So what does this have to do with Vision Boards and
your own goals?
Well, what I’ve come to realize is that without thoughtful
reflection it’s unlikely we will realize how we are holding ourselves
back from success.
What do I mean by thoughtful reflection?
First the importance of getting clear on your big
goals is critical. Whatever the goals, get crystal clear on
the outcome you are going to attract. Picture the state you’ll
be in when you reach the goal. Write out the goal and add a picture
to it. An image so meaningful to you that makes the hair on
your neck stands up. Next, at sometime during the day or the
week ask yourself what you’ve done to make progress to that goal. Also
ask yourself what you’ve done that has held you back from making
progress. That could be things you haven’t done or it could
be things you’ve done that undermined your success. An example could
be choosing to watch TV for another 30 minutes versus getting up
off the couch and exercise.
Through regular thoughtful reflection you’ll find
one or two other ideas that will put you in a better position for
the next day. Put this practice to use and you’ll be consistently
removing the obstacles between you and your goal.
What to go further? Try sharing your goals. Share
your key goals including timelines and your weaknesses with people
you trust. For example you may have a goal to lose 15 lbs within
the next two months. The challenge you may have is eating after
7 PM. You then share your goal, time frame and the weakness
you need to address, with someone who wants to see you succeed. Commit
to coming back to that person on a regular basis with an update on
how you are doing both in terms of progress and what you’ve done
to work around or overcome your weakness.
After a couple of days or weeks you go back to your
support person good, bad or otherwise with an update. You’ll
find that simply making that commit to follow up will make a real
difference.
To really accelerate success, share your goals with
three or four people. Many people find that it’s much more
difficult to break a commitment with three or four people than it
is with one.
So let’s review the key points:
- Get very clear on what you want. Define your top
goals. If you’re a StepOne Member, write out your goal
in the appropriate Vision Board category, select the ‘Achieve By’
date and pick the goal image.
- Get clear on how you need to change your thinking
in order to reach the goal. If you’re a StepOne Member use
the Affirmation, Gratitude and Role Model sections of the site
help re-cast your thoughts and beliefs around your reaching your
goal.
- Thinking about the things you do to undermine
your progress. Write these damaging habits down and resolve
to create tactics that will minimize these harmful behaviors.
- Share your goal with those who want to see your
succeed. Again, if you’re a StepOne Member use the Share
functionality that comes with each Vision Board category. You
can share a Vision Board with up to three friends or family at
once. Ask for their support in advance and then let them
see your goal and time line.
- Take time each day to review your goals,
overcoming your weaknesses and picture success. For StepOne
Members it’s as simple as double clicking on your Vision Board
icon on your desktop or looking at your printed StepOne Vision
Board.
Mistakes are opportunities to leap forward. If
you can become aware of where you are holding yourself back and then
remove or minimize that behavior you’ll be amazed at your progress.
Live Courageously!
Conn Nicoll
Guest Writer
StepOneVisionBoards.com
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